A concert audience silhouetted against warm stage lights

What we offer

When life becomes fragile, moments matter.

So we make those moments extraordinary.

Luxury experiences, funded in full and arranged around the person.

Living Not Existing provides unforgettable experiences for individuals facing a terminal diagnosis. Every one is crafted with care, sensitivity and attention to detail — so that each person feels valued, supported, and able to truly live in the moment.

A floodlit stadium at dusk with a brightly lit pitch and a full crowd
Sport

World-class sporting events

Premier League matches, rugby internationals, Formula 1 weekends and more — the fixture they have always wanted to be at, with the people they want beside them.

A concert audience silhouetted against warm stage lights
Music

Unforgettable music experiences

Concerts, festivals, intimate performances and exclusive moments — including the ones that don’t appear on any ticket site.

An elegantly plated fine dining dish on a candlelit table
Dining

Michelin-star dining

Exceptional meals at some of the UK’s finest restaurants, with dietary needs and treatment side effects quietly handled in advance.

A luxury hotel suite with a wide window looking out over a calm sea at dawn
Stays

Five-star hotel stays

Luxury breaks designed to give families space to breathe, reconnect and rest — away from the house where everything is a reminder.

Beyond the headline

Sometimes the moment that matters is a small one.

Not everybody wants a stadium. Some people want a table at the restaurant where they got engaged. Some want one night away with their children, in a room big enough for all of them. Some want to see the sea.

We start with the person, not the catalogue. If what would mean the most is quiet, modest and unglamorous, that is exactly what we will arrange — with the same care we would give anything else.

How we get it right

The detail is the whole point.

An experience that is exhausting, inaccessible or badly timed is not a gift. Every arrangement is built around what the illness and the treatment actually allow.

Timed around treatment

We plan around chemotherapy cycles, appointments and the days someone is likely to feel well — and we keep the booking flexible in case that changes.

Access sorted in advance

Step-free routes, seating, parking, oxygen, rest space, quiet rooms. Arranged before arrival so nobody has to ask on the day.

Someone on the end of a phone

A named contact from the moment a plan is agreed until the family is home again. If something changes, they call us, not the venue.

If plans have to change, they change.

Nobody is penalised for cancelling, rearranging or pulling out at the last minute. That is not a concession we make — it is built into how every experience is booked.

Make this possible

Every one of these exists because somebody helped.

Tickets, tables, rooms and time given by businesses who wanted to do something useful.